I do not know anything about psychology, but heard a term from my father- mob psychology. Whatever I gathered from him is something like this: when you are in a peer group you tend to care less about others and become aggressive. You get a feeling that whatever you do there is a force to support your action.
I guess this exactly happened when we entered Nehru Park. Barring Mrinmoy and me, others in the group were self-styled beau of three females I had never seen. Both Bhaskars were victims of unrequited love and Bikash was a great admirer of womenâs beauty. He fantasised himself as the prospective husband of every girl who caught his attention. Iâm not sure if girls meant anything beyond a sexual apparatus to Mrinmoy. And I was blissfully unaware of the power of eve till then.
Nehru Park was a shocker for me. Even today I cannot hug a girl in public, not even if she is my friend. And kissing? I guess Iâll faint. And there I could see couples smooching right in front of my eyes. Those occupying the corner benches were even more adventurous. I saw live what I had seen in an English movie in Rupayan. This cinema hall was popular among students as it played English movies with A certificates.
While I was busy relishing my âbelieve-it-or-notâ experience, Bhaskar Bora started what he is famous for: poking his nose in otherâs affairs. He started hurling out choicest abuses at these couples. He received overwhelming support from the other four. Mrinmoy enjoyed harassing others, but that day I realised losers in lâaffaire could be very spiteful.
Before I could react, someone decided to react.
A police constable came rushing to us and asked us to stop abusing. âHas anyone complained against us? Whatâs the proof we are abusing?â Bhaskar retorted.
The constable did not utter a word, but pointed his finger to a couple in an amorous hug.
Bhaskar did not take 30 minutes to reach the bench the couple was sitting and slapped the man. âNever mess with Cottonian. I stay in SNBC Hostel, very near to this park. Next time I see you here, you are dead,â our hero, or rather mob-leader declared.
That night gang of five saw him in the superintendentâs office of SNBC hostel. He was a Cottonian himself and friend of a senior border in the hostel.
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Nov. 18, 2005 - mob phsycology
As for bullying lovey-dovey couples....well what could people do who are madly in love? & in a place where there are hardly any place to hang out? I've seen this scenario even in Victoria Memorial in Kolkata, Marine Drive - mumbai & the Lodhi Gardens in delhi.......!