Dear A1,
I don’t know why you call yourself A1, but to me you seem to be without any grade. I have read your blogs, never felt the urge to comment. Of course I was provoked when I saw your comment on my blog. I don’t mind harsh comments, but your comments were uncivilised. For others I’ll copy the comment and also my reply to it.
A1: what work do u have in Nehru Park. U parents have spend their hard earned money to put you in Cotton College and accomodate you in the hostels there.
And you good-for-nothing students waste the money in movies and going to parks and teasing couples. since either you look like a bookworm with specs or you dont have the guts to talk to a girl and make friends.
these hostel students should be send back to the villages and small towns they come they. they think by watching movies and gossiping in tv room in hostels they can get good marks in exams.
grow up and have bigger aims.
Try to get a seat in Standford or Harvard.
Not to do a HS course in Cotton College and then flunk gracefully in Degree course
My reply: Thanks for your comment. Unfortunately I did not waste my parent's money and achieved whatever I wanted in life. I still don't wear spects and talk to lotta gals. The good part is that despite having all these wild fun and spending hours in movie halls, I could maintain my career. And there's no magic in it. All you need to do is to be sure of what you want out of life. I guess that's something beyond your comprehension, coz you don't seem to possess the thing that should have been properly placed over your shoulder. Anyway, I pity your kids if you are already a parent. If not, please don't produce one.
And dear preacher, please comment with your identity.
A1 again: Pl don't take my comments personally! its nothing to do with u 'Arhan' specifically. Taking a break in a park, is fine enough. But to be a moral police and start bashing up people? And then trying to wriggle out of a tight spot? Some bravado!
When we post our views on a public domain, we should expect a few comments, which may not be in tune with our frame of mind. I can understand what Anonymous meant! And ur outbrust against his comments i feel was an overkill!
But then u r still growing up! And the day u do so - u won't have the same views towards ur antics as u do now!
Its nice that u have not lost sight of your aim in life and career, inspite of ur extra-currlcular activities!
All the best,
I admit wasting parents hard earned money is sin. But in the story I was not at all trying to justify anything. It was just a first person account with liberal dose of fiction.
“these hostel students should be send back to the villages and small towns they come they. they think by watching movies and gossiping in tv room in hostels they can get good marks in exams”
What do you mean by that? Do you think only small town guys or villages kids only indulge in such activities. If you think Guwahati is too big, travel a little buddy. It seems you have no respect for Cotton College. I don’t think too big about Cotton College, but I don’t think Harvard or Standford can only make your life. Get out of your US fixation, do something that even the US people respect you. But, that’s beyond your capacity. In the name of dispassionate living, you have accepted defeat. That’s the problem with losers, they find fault with everything.
I guess you did not read my blog carefully. Did anyone of us try to be moral police? Bhaskar slapped the person because he had complained against us. I never tried to justify what we did. It was just a narration. You, by your reaction to that incident, are trying to act as moral police. Pack off village kids, huh! Now, you’ll say stop Arhan from posting in www.bihu.in
What do you mean by antics? It seems you have lead a life all by following social ethics and norms and that actually has created a moron out of you. Learn to enjoy life, instead of finding fault with others.
I’m sure my words have hurt you and many people will find these words uncivilized. But, I guess you can feel the harshness of your words when you are treated with the same medicine.
What can I make out of a person who thinks I wear spects or I don’t have the guts to talk to gals just because we created nuisance in a park. Yes buddy, I said nuisance and I’m candid about it.
And dare not to say that Cottonians are good for nothing. One still needs good marks to enter Cotton. One may choose to ruin his or life in Cotton College, but none is fool enough to think that without studies one can secure good marks in examination. So, please stop making generalised comments.
Besides, you still have not done anything great in life to comment on the lives of others and dictate who should be treated how. Have you done anything to refute this statement? Please let me know. I’m waiting.
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• Dec. 7, 2005 - Untitled Comment
"anonymous" and A1 are two different persons! pl believe me. I take full responsibility for all the comments under A1.
But I have nothing to do with the comments under "anonymous".
I have sent u a personal email in this regard, and have also posted yet another comment after the my rejoinder.
For whatever I have written under A1, if it has hurt u, i sincerely appologize, yes even at my age.
I came to Bihu.in and found a wonderfull community after being in the wilderness for years. And if my apologizing to u and others whom i have hurt inadvertently means to build up this community, I would apologize again.
Thank you
A1